Although I don’t have access to all of my files, I was able to compile the first three volumes of my Full Swap series into one big — and deeply discounted — volume. Separately, the price of each book is $2.99. But now that they’ve all been out for a while, this first compilation is only $3.99. which cuts the price to only $1.33 for each one. I’ll be doing a second compilation of volumes 4-6, but that’s probably a couple more months down the road, if not longer. I also edited a few areas that we’re quite up to snuff.
Here is the spiffy new cover for this release:
Sometimes, I feel as if I’m never going to catch up with all the writing I need to do. Perhaps I should stop having sex so much. Hmm … nah.
Anyway … I’ve released two new volumes of the Full Swap series, both available on Amazon. I should also be releasing a compilation of volumes 1-4 by tomorrow, in addition to 2-3 new books within the next few weeks. Then I’ll be all caught up. And don’t worry — we are still having a variety of adventures, so it never gets boring. Or at least, I hope it never does.
Volume Five celebrates a series of new adventures after taking a break for a while to work on some family stuff and spend time without bringing couples into the mix (which we think is healthy to do every once in a while — a sabbatical from sex, if you will).
Volume Six concerns, as the title clearly states, a sexual awakening that began to come to light in the stories of volume five, but wasn’t fully understood until later.
My husband and I try not to be too picky when it comes to couples. Obviously, we have certain standards when it comes to who we hook up with, but at the end of the day, sex is sex and as long as it’s fun, it’s not a big deal. Plus, when you open up your horizons a bit, you’ll find that you can be pleasantly surprised. That’s one reason why we try to look at personality and looks together. And, to be honest, whereas we can overlook certain inadequacies in regards to appearance (since we’re definitely not perfect) for a great personality, it typically doesn’t go the other way.
To date, we have never rejected a couple, and we’ve definitely been with some average looking couples. But we look at it this way — we’ve been with couples who were more attractive than us, too, so it all balances out in the end. Unfortunately, during a recent trip to Vegas, we proved how accepting we could be while also being handed the short end of the stick.
We typically don’t hook up with more than one couple on the same weekend, but this being Vegas, we decided to have more fun than usual. The first night, we hooked up with a very nice couple who actually lived in California, as well. They were both acceptable, so we made our way to their hotel. Once we got there, they honestly weren’t what we expected. The guy was pretty shy … I think I scared him a bit. The girl, though, was a bit Amazonian. She had a bit of weight to her. In person, they wouldn’t have been out first choice, but both of them were so nice and inviting — especially the girl — that we went upstairs after a bit and had some fun. The girl was embarrased by her weight, so she wouldn’t take her shirt off, but that was okay. We both enjoyed ourselves quite a bit (though, admittedly, I passed out during the sex — I’ll tell that whole story in a future edition of my Full Swap series).
A few nights later, a couple who we had been talking to since before we left for Vegas got in contact with us and wanted to know if we were able to stay an extra night, because they wanted to be with us. As it turns out, we hadn’t even had a chance to gamble — just a lot of walking around — so after checking the price for another night, we decided to stay an additional day.
All day long, my husband texted with the guy from the couple. He was definitely down to fuck. He loved my pics and had talked quite a bit about what he planned to do with me. His wife, on the other hand — as we would soon find out — was a stuck-up bitch (we knew she had the “bitch look,” but tried to ignore it). It started with the guy suddenly asking for face pics again, even though we had sent them several. We sent a selfie (that’s the first time I’ve ever written that word, btw) and it was fine.
When they arrived at our hotel room, though, they immediately started acting weird. The guy lowered the lights and closed the curtain, then they sat on the bed. My husband is convinced that the girl just wasn’t into him. He wasn’t bothered with that, but it was kinda weird — her husband was older and was only mildly good looking. Plus, he admitted that he had a small cock and was looking forward to watching his wife get fucked by my husband’s thick one. Personally, I wasn’t attracted to either of them, but I was more than willing to get down and have some fun.
Then, out of the blue, after whispering to each other for a few seconds, they told us that they were going to leave. We had no idea what to say. This had never happened with us before. We were really nice about it, but after they left, we felt incredibly rejected. Part of it was due to the fact that they left right after I had returned from the restroom with only my shirt and underwear left on. Which made me feel incredibly unattractive, despite my husband trying to convince me that the guy’s woman simply wasn’t into him. We’ll never know exactly what it was, but we definitely know it was the wife who made the decision.
Obviously, we can’t force anyone to have sex with us … and there’s always another couple out there … one that not only looks better, but has a better personality. From talking to them about their limited experience in the lifestyle, it was clear that the guy was much more into it than he was. In fact, we later discovered two very interesting facts. First, the guy had been arrested a few years before for propositioning a prostitute while he was a teacher. And second, he was heavily involved in his church and had repented his sins.
So, although it sucked that we had been rejected, we could take some solace in the fact that they would be going to hell. 😉
No, there is not.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it’s true. Not everyone in the world can be swingers. The reasons as to why someone would refuse to partake in a decidedly fun adventure are plentiful, and each one is easy to understand. Perhaps there is a morality issue that he or she (most likely she — let’s be honest here) can’t overcome. Religious beliefs may or may not be a huge part of that. Maybe your girlfriend doesn’t want to be with another man, period. Or perhaps you don’t like the idea of seeing your woman taking it long and hard from a different guy. Quite frankly, jealousy in a big issue when it comes to swinging. If you can’t trust each other, it’s probably not a good idea to begin the lifestyle.
But let’s say that you have trust, there are no religious or moral issues to overcome, and your relationship is ironclad. How do you broach the subject without getting slapped in the face?
To be honest, you’re going to have to with your gut. Each person is different, which is why there is no surefire way to bring it up. It’s probably not a good idea to be hanging out watching your favorite movie together and blurt out, “You wanna fuck other people, honey?” And definitely don’t say something about it during or right after sex. The only surefire thing that will accomplish is a slap in the face.
If you’re interested in swinging and you want to open up your significant other, then watch his or her “tells” that she might be interested in the opposite sex. Being with another woman is, without a doubt, the biggest reason why women are open to it. Many don’t want to be with a woman on their own, except maybe a little kissing and touching, but the idea of putting on a show for two men can be intoxicating. So while you’re in the dating part of your relationship or even after you’ve settled into a bit of a routine, watch for signs that she might be interested in women. Some may be easier to spot than others.
At some point, you’re just going to have to bite the bullet and bring up the subject of bisexual interaction. My husband attests that every single woman he has dated for more than a couple of months has revealed that she has either messed around with a woman or wants to do so. It is a very common thing, but you need to know where your woman stands. From there, you can tell her how hot it would be to watch her be with a woman, even if it was just making out. Then, if it interests you, ask her about being with a couple. But always make it about her. Avoid being too eager or she’s simply think you want to fuck other women with her blessing. Instead, if you’re comfortable with her fucking another guy — and if you’re not, then you’re a hypocrite, in my opinion — tell her how hot it would be to watch a guy enjoy what you enjoy whenever you want. Women eat that shit up … and for most men, it’s absolutely true, anyway.
For the ladies, you might encounter the same thing — your guy might just think that you’re looking for a way to fuck other men. This is a much easier hump to get over. All you need to do is explain that if you wanted to do this only because you wanted to fuck another guy, you’d simply go to the nearest bar and find a willing participant within ten minutes. Less, if your nipples are poking through your shirt.
The important thing to remember, for both sides of the gender pool, is that swinging isn’t just about sex — though that is obviously a big part of it — it’s about having an adventure together. After the first time my husband and I were with a couple, we woke up the next morning and felt closer together than we ever had before. We had shared something that not too many couples have. And it’s important to emphasis that sharing with your significant other.
As with all things, communication is the key to success. But, above all, if your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc. is definitely not into it, unfortunately, it’s best not to press the issue. That will only drive the other person away.
As I’ve been writing the 5th book of the Full Swap series, which will catch us up on our adventures thus far, I’ve realized that there is definitely something to be said when it comes to youth versus experience.
The thing is, it sounds hot to be with people — especially girls — that are really young. My husband would agree, seeing as how we’re several years apart. When we first met, I couldn’t even legally drink. So when we search for a new couple, it’s hard to resist youth. If we were looking for a couple to hang out with on a regular basis, that would be one thing. But simply getting them into bed? Robbing the cradle is absolutely enticing. Everything is new and fresh. Not only their bodies, but also their experiences. Showing a couple what is really possible during sex can be quite an attractive prospect.
The biggest negative aspect of this is the same as one of the positives — experience. Although it may be enticing to be with a young couple for nothing more than their age and the fact that nothing’s started to get saggy or wrinkly yet, many young couples don’t know what they’re doing. They know that the penis goes into the vagina, and they’ve watched some porn, but there’s much to it than that. An older couple, one that has a bit more experience in life itself, not just sex, can lead to a more enjoyable time. For the most part, they’ll also be quite a bit more mature and less nervous when you get together.
Of course, you really have to go with your gut and maybe get a little risky, because there are no guarantees. If you have a bad time once or twice, that comes with the territory. It’s best to feel out each couple on an individual basis. I’ve found that some older guys can be quite crude from the get-go, whereas the younger guys are excited just to have sex in the first place, not to mention seeing their girl being intimate with another girl.
When in doubt, talk it over with your significant other and make a decision together.
I promise that I’ll be posting some actual discussions about the lifestyle soon, rather than just hawking my books. I’m just trying to get through the rest of our adventures while they’re still fresh in my memory. We were with a couple a little over a week ago, which gives me enough material to get through a fifth volume. I’ll be relieved to catch up, to be honest, because I have plenty of other things I’m trying to write. Plus, you know, my day job. Which is more writing. lol
Anyway, here is the cover to Volume Four: Double Dipping. This one concerns repeat encounters of people we’ve been with before. This is the first encounter that doesn’t follow a chronological order, and a couple of them are kinda short. Which is why I put in four different stories this time around. The next volume will only have three, but they’re much more involved.
Yes, I’ve been out of the loop lately. I’ve been swamped with work, not to mention finishing my third volume of our swinging adventures. Plus, I’ve changed the titles to use the word “volume” instead of “year.” Using year one and year two were fine in the beginning, but since they’re not really accurate at this point, I decided that a change was needed.
If you want to check out Volume Three, go here: http://tinyurl.com/fullswap3
And here are my new, updated covers, although I’m thinking about redoing them completely to make them sexier. For now, though, that will have to be on the back burner.